Monday, March 19, 2018

A Tribute to Dave Dalthorp, The Statesman

Our community lost a great one this past week.  Dave Dalthorp, nicknamed "The Statesmen" by our close peers passed away and left a lasting legacy behind him.  I first met Dave in 1987 when I joined KNDU TV as Sports Director.  He was genuine from the start, even though I was fresh out of college and I really didn't know what I was getting into.  He always made me feel at ease with his tremendous support, no matter what the circumstances.

Dave was not only a mentor, but a great friend as well.  I always knew I could talk to Dave about anything.  His door was always open and he always listened.  He always had great advice, and his best attribute was his ability to shield his employees from the sometimes harsh things that can happen in the corporate world we live in.  He also never showed the stress he was going through.

Dave made many friends while serving as the Station Manager at KNDU TV.  He was respected by everyone, and admired by all.  He loved the WSU Cougars, and he was a die hard Pasco Bulldog.  He loved to fish, and he loved to talk about fishing.  I remember sharing a Salmon I caught and will never forget the look on his face when I gave it to him.  I will never forget the 11 foot Sturgeon we caught at Hell's Canyon on a team building trip, and how proud he was of the catch, and his team.

He glowed when he talked about his wife Herta, and tears would come to his eyes whenever you talked about something that was dear to his heart.  I miss having "a cold one" with Dave, but more importantly, I will miss the man.

May your wonderful soul rest in peace.   Your family has a lot to be proud of.

RIP Dave Dalthorp, The Statesman.


Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Happy Valentine's Day!

Valentine's Day is more than just that special sweetheart in your life.  It's about the support systems in your life.  We all look forward to that special note, text, letter, e-card, or very rarely anymore, that special phone call from someone telling you how special you are to them.


For those of us that have been through a few of these days, it may not have the meaning it used to, but it's still an important day.  Are you going through health issues?  Maybe trouble at work?  Are you having some challenges with your kids, or maybe a relationship? 


Today is the day to reflect on those support systems in your life that make those difficult days that much better.  The support systems that pick you up when you are down, or maybe center you when you get out of whack.  These are the Valentines that touch our gut when we really need it.  These are the ones that really matter.


It's time to pick up the phone and make someone's day.  Put a smile on their face.  Tell them how much you appreciate them.  Make their day.


You will be glad you did.


Happy Valentine's Day!



Monday, February 5, 2018

Went to a party and a golf tournament broke out

Over 191,000 people attended the Waste Management Phoenix Open on Friday.  I'm guessing 150,000 or so don't even know what a bogey is.


Who cares.


It's February and 80 degrees in Phoenix.  White pants for women are in, and you don't have to know anything about golf to have a good time at this event.  To go from ski boots and layers to shorts and flip flops.  Nobody was complaining here. 


This was the second time I've attended this event and each one was a memorable one.  We were fortunate to have passes to a corporate tent that lines the 18th fairway.  Only the water hazard on the left side of the fairway separated us from the golfers.  The scoreboard was straight across from us so we knew how everyone was doing.


We had our choice of all the food and drink we wanted, we even had access to Jello Shooters.  They had a selfie station with different contraptions you could use in the photo op.  Young, beautiful women were there to deliver drinks, you could learn a lesson on customer service here.


How big is it?  The wait for the Uber ride only took an hour, people were throwing up in line, there were fights, we even got to watch movies and listen to music while we stood in line.  I don't like rap but it didn't matter on this day.  What a great weekend to celebrate the Super Bowl.


Every year they set records for attendance.  It's not hard to figure out why.  Add this to your bucket list.


This is the Waste Management Phoenix Open. 

Friday, January 19, 2018

The Healing Begins for the Cougar Nation

The first text came in from a close friend and I couldn't believe it.  "I'm getting word that Tyler Hilinski committed suicide today".  My heart dropped.  Not only in disbelief, but these are the texts that just don't come across my phone.  Moments later my iPhone started blowing up.  Texts were coming in from all over the country.  People don't realize the nature of being a Cougar.  It's a very small nation, and a tight one.  I really can't recall anything that has gone so viral in such a short amount of time.


The next four hours literally dropped me to my knees.  My close Cougar friends banter back and forth via text about a lot of things.  Mike Leach and his no-run offense, coaching changes across the country, even predictions on what's going to happen next year.  When are we going to name a new Athletic Director.
People are so excited about a versatile quarterback leading the troops next year.  What an extra element Tyler Hilinski will bring to this offense.   The future is bright.  This tragedy was not supposed to be part of the equation.


Little did we know how much #3 was hurting.  I lost my best friend to suicide years ago and I still have trouble processing it.   I do know he did share with me the demons he was facing, but he was such a gregarious, positive guy that I didn't think it was that serious.  I knew he was getting help, I would visit him at a halfway house frequently.  I still wonder if I was still in town if I could have helped him.  Unfortunately I would have to find out the hard way.  I received a phone call that I lost my best friend.


There is something positive we can take from all of this.  This will undoubtedly  bring the whole Cougar Nation closer, specifically the football team and those close to it.  It's so important that we all focus on the ' here and now', we just don't know when our time will come.


Tyler Hilinski's time came much too early.  And the whole Cougar Nation is mourning because of it. 


RIP #3


-TM

Sunday, January 7, 2018

Overcoming our fears in 2018

People laugh at me but I like watching the Hallmark Channel.  During the Christmas season I swear I watched a Christmas movie almost every night.  Maybe it's because both my parents are gone and I'm living through these movies, I don't know.  But one thing is true, there's always inspiring stories about people's passions, goals, values, and of course the sappy thing we call falling in love.

Last night I got excited because the movie this time was on the slopes.  Love on the Slopes was all about people following their passions.  Katrina Bowden (who plays Alex) a young aspiring writer trying to fulfill her life long dream.  There's obviously something romantic about falling in love on the slopes but the message here was a lot deeper than that.  Thomas Beaudoin (Cole) played an accomplished photographer fighting through his own fears. He was a shy, unassuming introvert who had problems opening himself up to people and doing the things important for his business, and his own personal growth.  Both helped each other get out of their comfort zones and overcome their fears.  In the meantime, they fell in love.

As we enter 2018, what are you doing to get out of your comfort zone and overcome your fears?  Maybe something you've never done before but have always wanted to?  Is it time to attack that fear that both of these actors were able to do with the help of each other?

Often times it takes another person we become close with who can help recognize our fears and help us get over them.  Wishing you the presence of mind to achieve this in 2018.

Happy New Year!